Humming a humble tune

I’m feeling incredibly humble tonight when it comes to songwriting.

According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the word humble comes from the Latin humilis, meaning low. It means “not proud of haughty”; “not arrogant or assertive; ” “reflecting, expressed or offered in a spirit of deference or submission”; “ranking low in a hierarchy or scale.”

There are just so many amazing songwriters out there — old and young, past and present, male and female, co-writers and loners. And every time I feel like I know a lot about music and writing, I listen to someone I haven’t listened to before — and feel humble.

Strangely, when I first started writing songs 10 years ago I didn’t feel as humble. But the more I learn, the more I realize there is to learn. The more I listen to music, the more I realize I haven’t listened to a drop in the bucket compared to what there is to hear. The more I write, the more I respect the best writers out there. The more I play my instruments, the more I see that the best musicians I know are more than just talented — they really do practice, practice, practice and practice some more.

It’s quite overwhelming, actually. But that humble songwriting pie I’m eating actually tastes really sweet: That’s because the best part about songwriting, I find, is the journey. It’s reading Wikipedia articles about the history of songwriters and songs; it’s about learning what influenced my favorite musicians; it’s about filling my iPod with new music; it’s getting recommendations from musicians I respect; it’s about taking lessons; it’s about practicing guitar and piano; it’s about sitting down and noodling and getting excited about something new and interesting arising.

What I’m saying is that learning about songwriting and music is *fun* — at least it is for me. And I’m thrilled to get more and more humble as time goes on — I know it will make me a better songwriter this year, next year and beyond.

Hummmm….you know what I mean?

  • http://jimcolbertmusic.com Jim

    I know exactly what you mean. I love the journey of walking along that often-twisting and circuitous path between “idea” and “song.” For me personally, there is no greater catalyst to wanting to write than hearing good live music. It’s also amazing how many truly gifted writers there are out there.

    If I start feeling “un-humble” I tend to put in David Olney, Dan Penn, older Richard Shindell, James Keelaghan, Patty Griffin, Chris While & Julie Matthews, Kate Wolf…

  • Mike

    Well said….and a lesson I have to continually get through my head. I haven’t put pen to paper in I don’t know how freaking long and it is solely because of that know-it-all tendency I have. Just because I’ve been playing guitar for 30+ years doesn’t mean squat when it comes down to concepts such as NOW. Time does NOT exist. Just ask Albert Einstein. We don’t “run out” of time. If we’re lucky, we’ll run out of excuses to not put ourselves into the middle of our craft.

    Incidentally, do you know how to get to the Catskills?….Stop Practicing.

  • http://www.cerebellumblues.com Jeff Shattuck

    I relate, but where I’m maybe different is that I vacillate — sometimes by the minute — between three states: arrogance, humility and hopelessness.

    In my arrogant state, I think my songs kick ass and are way better than most of the songs out there. Immediately, however, I slip into humility, usually when I’m listening to something I’ve done that’s, um, maybe not so great or listening to The Beatles, who I’m now convinced were space aliens (I mean, come on, they were just too good!). Hopelessness is ever present, but most acute on entering a large store that sells either lots of books or CDs or both and just seeing the staggering amount of creativity in the world and wondering why anyone would ever care about me. But my songs kick ass! And the cycle continues…

  • http://www.nicholastozier.com/words Tozier

    I think if your humility increases as you learn, you’re on the right track. :)

    Was it Emerson who said that every man he met was his superior in some way? I try to take everyone as my teacher, and to take every song and piece of music I hear as my teacher.

    In the past, I’ve gotten down on myself for shortcomings. In retrospect, it was foolish to endure deficiency in technical skills (or whatever) without just picking up the guitar or sitting at the piano to practice. Too often the idea of writing a song is much more daunting than actually writing one. Same with developing better fluency in reading music, training your voice, etc. We all end up emphasizing different skill sets, and that’s part of what creates the immense variety among songwriters. There’s just not enough time to master every aspect of lyric writing, melody composition, harmony, arrangement, performance…

  • http://www.nicholastozier.com/words Tozier

    … but we sure can try. Great blog entry again, Sharon!